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Williams, Certified Life
Do you think
that brand new laptop that you saw at Circuit city will just
magically appear in your home, or what about those projects that you
know you need to start, do you think they will start themselves?
Hey, what about that quiet time that you really need? Do you think
your children will magically disappear for a few hours after drawing
you a nice hot bubble bath? Heck No!
So, think to yourself. What is on your wish list (this is something
I ask all my coaching
clients)? Is it starting
your own business, have a monthly date night with your significant
other, have some quality time to yourself? Also ask yourself, Have I
kept this wish list to myself? Please tell me that you are not
waiting for your friends, loved ones, coworker or those you network
with to read your mind and then hand deliver what you are secretly
At times we may keep our mouths closed and not ask for what we want
out of fear of rejection or fear of seeming pushy or needy. For most
women, just the thought of asking other for help or for a favor is
enough to keep their mouths shut and their dreams far a way!
In order to ask for and go after what you want, it is important to
get clear about what you want and be able to describe it in detail..
Once you know what you want, be totally willing to ask for it
whenever you get the chance. This holds true in your business and
It is important to learn that is okay for someone to say “No”. It is
also important to learn that it is ok for any given situation to not
turn out the way you hoped it to go. Failure and/or rejections do
not have to be the final word, actually it can be the opening for
further negotiation. Take time to reflect on what happened. Were you
specific about what you wanted? Did you approach the correct person,
did you communicate yourself clearly? And most importantly, ‘How can
your refine your request for the next time you ask it?
Next, make list of the people who come to mind when you think of
what you want. For instance, if you want to start your own Virtual
Assistance business, why not search online for forums or websites
that specialize in that area. If you find such a forum, acquaint
yourself with the members and simply introduce yourself and ask for
advice, guidance and help. The only way people can help you is if
you let them know that you need help.
You will be amazed at how many people truly enjoy lending a hand to
others, and just think, the more you grown and learn, the more hands
you can to lend a helping hand to others as well.
If you need an extra hand getting what
you want out of life, contact Certified Life Coach,
She'll help you design a life that allows you to reach your business
and personal goals; cultivate more fulfilling relationships and that
elusive achieve work/life balance you've been striving for.
Click here to learn more
about her coaching program.
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